Sermon Title: “Security Blanket”

October 21, 2018

Forward
When we talk about fear we describe it as something that happens to us. We think of fear as something that came upon us without our permission and consumes us. And part of that is true. Our fears dictate the actions that we take. If you don’t learn how to overcome your fear you’ll find yourself sitting on the sidelines of your own life, benched because your brain is caught in the anxiety of its own imagination. While fear can consume us, what we miss is we still have a choice. Fear is a feeling inspired by a thought that might happen in the future. Change your feelings by changing your thinking. Change your thinking, and you’ll overcome your fears.

Title: “Security Blanket”

The thing that was meant to move you forward can become the thing holding you back.

We’re not afraid that God will make us give up what is best for us, but that he’ll make us give up what we’re used to.

We don’t tell the full truth when we say “Jesus brings peace” because the truth is “Jesus brings peace…eventually”.

God works through your dissatisfaction.

You cannot hold onto comfort and take hold of calling.

You’ll never know where God is leading you next if you won’t let go of where God led you first.


We’re all familiar with the concept of a comfort object, and most of us probably had one as kids – a blanket, or a stuffed animal, or a toy that we used as children to soothe ourselves when we were afraid. These objects were never meant to last forever, though. They existed as transitional objects meant to help us move from dependence to independence.

While most of us have either gotten rid of our comfort object or passed it on to the next generation, we’re still not totally independent of our attachment to comfort. We still find ourselves clinging to what is comfortable and familiar rather than facing the uncertainty of the future God has called us to. We’d rather stay in our current reality, whether it’s healthy or not, than pursue what we do not know.

We see the same story play out in Luke 8:26-39. The townspeople were more comfortable with the demon possessed man, because he was familiar, than with the healthy, healed version of the same man, because he was unfamiliar and unknown. They didn’t know what to expect from the new person that stood before them, so they feared him. We may scoff at the absurdity of it, but how often do our lives mirror the same story? We often fear the future, because we don’t know what to expect of it. We would rather remain in our current reality, because it’s safe and familiar, than seek a new future. We avoid doing the difficult work of healing because it might cost us some of our comfort. But the thing about comfort is, if we hold onto it for too long, the thing that was meant to help us move forward actually becomes the thing that holds us back.

Questions for Reflection:

  • Did you have a comfort object as a child?

  • Can you relate at all to the townspeople in the story from Luke 8?

  • How do you respond to the statement “Health is not a product of your circumstances, but your character?”

  • What significance do you see in Jesus telling the healed man to return home?

  • Has there been a time in your life when you chased different circumstances rather than a different character to bring about your health?

  • In what ways might comfort be keeping you from your calling?

  • Are there comfortable things that you may need to let go of in order to pursue God’s future for you?

  • Are there unhealthy things that you may need to drive out in order to pursue God’s future for you?

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