Session 5: The Debt

Sept 24, 2017

The question: What do I do with what I’ve done wrong?

Mistakes can be fixed in the future, sins must be fixed in the past.

The question becomes: What do I do about my sins?

  • Get over it.
  • Do good.
  • Ask forgiveness.

We can forgive others, but we don’t have the power to forgive ourselves.

Scripture:

John 1:26-29
Luke 22:19-20
Colossians 2:13-14

You don’t have to forgives yourself because you have already been forgiven.

“What I envy most about you Christians is your forgiveness; I have nobody to forgive me.”

Jesus Paid It All Lyrics
I hear the savior say, thy strength indeed is small
Child of weakness, watch and pray, find in me thine all in all
Lord, now indeed I find thy power and thine alone
Can change the leper’s spots and melt the heart of stone
And when before the throne I stand in him complete
“Jesus died my soul to save” my lips shall still repeat

A man can accept what Christ has done without knowing how it works: indeed, he certainly would not know how it works until he has accepted it. – CS Lewis

We love loopholes. No, not the kind that are associated with roller coasters. A loophole is an exception to a rule, a way to get out of the thing that you’re supposed to do because of a technicality or a unusual circumstances. Few people in the world love loopholes more than religious people.

Why do religious people love loopholes? Because their belief systems are full of rules. Judaism has the Ten Commandments, Islam has the 5 Pillars, even Jesus gave the Sermon on the Mount. And because of these rules, we assume our central response is to do one thing: behave.

What is even more interesting is that many of these rules are similar. Every major faith tradition teaches some form of the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. So we would assume that because they all have the same basic rule as a foundation, they all lead the same direction.

However there are two types of relationships that lead to rules, and that changes everything.

First, there is a club model for rules. The club model says that if you will agree to or adopt a set of rules, then a relationship will be in place. When you join a health club, a country club, or even Sam’s Club, you are operating within the club model. I will agree to these sets of rules, and, because of that, we will be in relationship.

There is also the family model. The family model puts a relationship first, and, since the relationship is in place, rules are established. A family doesn’t give a newborn baby a set of rules on condition for being in relationship with them. No! That would be crazy! The relationship is firmly secured and the rules slowly come into play over time.

The important part of faith is not the similarity of rules or how well we keep them, the important part of faith is whether it is a family model or a club model.

  • In general, are you a rule-keeper or rule-breaker?
  • Which model, club or family, best represents your understanding or experience of rules and relationship in religion?
  • Is it easier to see God as a rule-maker or a parent with boundaries? Why?

Scripture Focus:

John 1:26-29
Luke 22:19-20
Colossians 2:13-14

Accepting the reality of our sinfulness means accepting our authentic self. – Brennan Manning

BOTTOM LINE: SESSION 5

  • Mistakes are fixed in the future, but sins must be fixed in the past.
  • In all of history, only Jesus offered himself as the answer to the question of “what do I do about my sins?”
  • You don’t have to forgive yourself because you have already been forgiven.

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